March 11, 2005
Eliminating Sexual Diversity
Two weeks ago, I submitted an article to The New Hampshire, UNH’s only student newspaper with a significant reader base, about the school’s recent creation of “gender neutral” bathrooms. Or are they “transgender” bathrooms? The liberals can’t seem to make up their minds (as you can tell from a careful reading of the above source). The newspaper has thus far declined to publish my article, although it has since published several articles supporting the new bathrooms and attacking the sole columnist who spoke out against them.
UNH is supposedly only the second university in the U.S. to create transgender bathrooms, but the trend of eliminating sexual diversity on college campuses is hardly new. In Dartmouth, where one of my younger brothers goes to school, intersex dorms are the new thing - students can sign up for a roommate of unspecified gender, and they will be randomly paired with others who have the same request.
But anyway, here's my article, which will probably never be published by TNH. For the sake of length, I excluded several rebuttals that were featured in my article, but you can see them on my personal website.
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AMERICAN DEMOCRACY: RULE OF THE MINORITY?
In the 1960s, the battle against Civil Rights legislation prompted the longest filibuster in U.S. Senate history, as the Dixiecrats – a minority – tried to halt racial equality from permeating the American legal system. The death of racist laws was inevitable, but the reign of a few, exploiting a clause in Senate rules, managed to hold back the tide of democracy for a short time.
I am a racial minority at UNH, and I also happen to be brown. The UNH Student Senate’s establishing of “transgender-friendly” bathrooms is analogous to UNH deciding to add signs above all the lecture halls in Hindi because I am half-Indian. Never mind that I don't actually read, write, or speak Hindi or any other Indian languages – they simply assume that I do because I’m brown. The mostly-white Senate assumes that it was representing my opinions, even though I choose not to attend UNH's diversity meetings. So they go ahead and spend my tuition dollars to put up the new signs. If you agree with me that such a proposition would be ridiculous, keep reading.
According to the articles I have read in the TNH, the primary reasoning behind creating transgender bathrooms at UNH was to make people feel more comfortable. I believe UNH has failed in this regard. Firstly, I suggest that most students are actually NOT more comfortable going into the new bathrooms. In TNH's online poll, 87% of students agree with Paine that “transgender bathrooms are stupid”. Perhaps this is because the signs on the door are on a circle and triangle backdrop, both symbols of the political far left’s ideals of diversity. Or maybe it's because the signs say “Accessible bathrooms located on the east side of the building”. So these are non-accessible public bathrooms?
Now that we have two bathrooms at UNH that are “transgender-friendly”, anyone who sees someone walking into one of the bathrooms will wonder if they are transgender. And anyone who enters will wonder if the people outside are thinking he/she is transgender. It could even degenerate into a kind of peep show (except that you can lock the door to this “public bathroom” if you like). Beforehand, someone transgender could go into any bathroom they chose without worrying about speculation. I think you’ll agree with me that most people prefer inconvenience to embarrassment. Are non-activist transgender people any different?
Secondly, and more importantly, the bathrooms are symbolic without actually being more functional. Despite feeling uncomfortable walking into the bathrooms with other people in the hallway, I visited both bathrooms to see if UNH had made good on making its students feel more comfortable. All that had changed were the signs on the (formerly) male and female bathrooms. The former still has urinals; the latter does not, and has a tampon dispenser instead. If you prefer to urinate standing up, only one of the transgender bathrooms is actually useful to you. And if you run out of tampons, forget about utilizing the bathroom closer to the stairs. Now UNH wants to expand its bathroom experiment to every building on campus. (As an aside, I’ve recently heard that UNH decided to fix bathrooms in the dorms by adding urinals to the women’s bathrooms, but then scrapped the idea and is getting rid of the urinals in all the men’s bathrooms instead. Does that increase diversity?)
As Paine stated in his TNH Op-Ed, transgender folks make up a very small minority at UNH. I’m willing to bet the number is under ten, but if anyone can offer statistics showing otherwise, drop me an email at tnheditorials@djnoronha.com. I will check your source and post it on my website for everyone to see. Having gotten that out of the way, let me suggest the real reason that UNH let the Student Senate get away with spending our tuition and tax money on politicizing our bathrooms.
This April, there will be a big conference for poly-sexual people to espouse their political agendas here on our campus (read the last three paragraphs in the above link). UNH is bowing to pressure from this group to remodel our bathrooms for their conference. Do you want your student activity fee to help pay for this conference? I haven’t immersed myself very much in student politics at UNH. But now that the Senate that claims to represent me is supporting this agenda (as well as 300% increases in parking tickets!) I plan to start putting pressure on my senators. I suggest for my fellow UNH students to do the same.
The reasoning behind transgender bathrooms is flawed not only because it is the rule of the minority, but because those pushing the agenda are not transgender. They are claiming to champion transgender people, just as they claim to share minority status with brown people like me. I don’t feel accurately represented by minority rights groups. I wonder how many transgender people feel they are accurately represented by GLBT. Note that the group’s name has expanded to GLBTQQIAF; one of the Qs actually stands for “questioning”. Why are transgender people being singled out as pawns of their group? According to the TNH poll, 87% of UNH students agree that this is, to put it simply, stupid.
I’m asking for bathroom signs in Hindi, Urdu, Sanskrit, and Punjabi for all the Indians at UNH. And there’s one other thing I want. Indians don’t use toilet paper. They use a hose.
For more commentary, pictures of the bathrooms, and your chance to disagree with me, please visit my personal website at www.djnoronha.com. All genders, ethnicities, and species (including those who are GLBTQQIAFUULBTOBP – that includes Undecided, Unwanted, Lonely, Bored, and Tired Of Being Pets) are welcome.
Posted by Gandhi at March 11, 2005 11:35 AM
Women’s bathrooms are always nicer, certainly cleaner. Women won’t tolerate this change for very long. I doubt if men’s aim will improve just because women are present and after a brief adjustment period most of their other habits will also return.
Over at the gym where I work out, women have demanded (and got) a separate room where they can be free of the prying eyes of men and don’t have to look at their sweaty bodies or hear their guttural grunts. Bathrooms are worse.
There have been many occasions when I have been grossed out by the sounds and smells emanating from the men’s stalls, even after years of experience. I know this is a stereotype, but in my experience women are less tolerant of the smell of stale urine or the sound of flatulence being rapidly released. They won’t be able to comfortably use the bathrooms anymore. Women at UNH will have to give up drinking coffee and soft drinks unless they live within easy walking distance.
This is a truly stupid idea. I think it is also very interesting (although not surprising) that you are being censored.
“Women’s bathrooms are always nicer, certainly cleaner.”
How do you know Jack? - Cross dressing? ha ha ??
It is my guess that a man is leading this charge. He wanted all the urinals removed due to his own ‘embarrassment’ and had to go about finding a way to do it.
(After all we know a man who chooses to urinate behind a stall door is hiding a ‘small’ problem.)sorry…couldn’t resist
I agree that it would be less humiliating to go in a traditional men/women restroom than one marked for those who are different.
I’m asking for bathroom signs in Hindi, Urdu, Sanskrit, and Punjabi for all the Indians at UNH. And there’s one other thing I want. Indians don’t use toilet paper. They use a hose.
That’s awesome, Gandhi.
Don’t be surprised if TNH doesn’t publish this simply because of its length. This is too long as it is, and you said this is a shortened version. (Adding stuff about parking tickets doesn’t help either). Good thoughts, though.
Posted by: Chops at March 11, 2005 01:58 PMThanks, Chops. I removed the bit about parking tickets in the shortened version which I submitted for publishing :)
I don’t think TNH is refusing to publish my article for length reasons, or for writing quality. The rule for Op/Eds is they have to be within 600 words; mine was 600 exactly. TNH published another editorial over 900 words last month, on the same subject, by the president of the UNH Alliance. It was one of the poorest pieces of writing I’ve ever seen - the author even conceeded “In conclusion, I admit that I probably rambled a bit”. Big journalistic mistake!
Posted by: Gandhi at March 11, 2005 02:22 PMGandhi,
How can UNH isolate a group of people into separate rooms?
Wouldn’t that be the same as “separate but equal”?
The only fair thing to do (if they’re stupid enough to propose something like that) is to remove all labels off the restrooms!
It should say nothing more than “restroom” on the doors.
Equip them all with urinals, stools,tampon and condom dispencers, and a hose.
That should cover all the bases unless someone thought that a litterbox might be needed?
If that idea didn’t go over well with the majority of students, you might just put a pic. of a “pud” on some and a pic. of a “tweeter” on others?
Nothing about gender there, it would be based on “equipment” and you would save money by not having to print signs in many languages.
Ok, I’m not sure what the big deal about this is. Have they basically made the bathrooms co-ed, or are they trying to designate specific bathrooms for “transgenders” to use? If they have only made the bathrooms co-ed, what’s the problem? I’m a conservative, and I don’t have any problem with that. We had co-ed bathrooms at Amherst College (at least in my dorm) back in 1988, 17 years ago. Amherst had been all-male until the late 1960’s, and therefore no arrangements had been made for separate male and female bathrooms in the older dorms. The dorms were co-ed (something else I don’t have a problem with) and the only alternative to co-ed bathrooms was having some people have to walk to the other end of the dorm to use the bathroom, as there were only 2 on each floor, so if you had a Men’s room at one end and a Girl’s at the other, the girls at the wrong end would have to walk twice as far to go to the bathroom or take a shower, and the men would have to do the same.
As a courtesy, most students knocked before going in, but nobody really had any problems with it. And they did actually allow us to vote on whether to have the bathrooms be co-ed or walk farther, and I don’t remember anyone voting against the co-ed idea.
Now, if the college is trying to designate bathrooms specifically for “transgenders”, then yes, that is stupid. But co-ed bathrooms are no big deal. Not in the 21st Century.
At home our bathrooms are polysexual. But think how nervewracking it is when even you closest friends come over. When they go upstairs to use the bathroom and close that door with a defiant slam, after fumbling with the tricky old lock, I always think oh no what if I forgot to hide “____” insert any mumber of embarassing items here: Medications, false teeth, tampon plastic applicators, raunchy reads, (Liberal Rags— for cleaning the copious glass and mirrors newsprint cant be beat). I cant imagine the amounts of very strange stranger sex this would lead to.
Posted by: Taylor Collins at March 11, 2005 02:52 PM“Womens bathrooms are nicer and cleaner than men’s”
Jack, you’ve obviously never cleaned the bathrooms in gas stations.
I have to agree though that transgender bathromms are a stupid ideda.
I don’t think very many women would appericate a man walking in on them while they’re on the pot. I also doubt very many men (dispite their talk) would want a woman walking in on them.
Beagle - you’re absolutely correct. The new designation isn’t a practical one; it’s a political one, and that’s why I take issue with the signs. A gender neutral bathroom requires no sign other than “bathroom”.
The gay lobby has done much the same thing with trying to include blacks with them as holders of minority status, even though sexuality and race have nothing to do with each other. The same thing is being done here with transgender people, only this time it is much more blatant, since presumably only some 1 in 4000 people are transgender.
Part of the issue is that, as you will notice if you read the original TNH article, that they can’t make up their minds whether these bathrooms are gender-neutral or for transgender people. The UNH Student Senate (which proposed the bathroom changes) and every liberal columnist who has defended the decision has focused on transgendered people, not the issue of gender neutrality. Since that is what the UNH liberals want, that was the primary issue that I addressed in my editorial.
Now, I also have a few issues with the idea of gender-neutral bathrooms. Jack covered one of those issues pretty well. To answer Ron - I haven’t cleaned a gas station bathroom, and I know they’re pretty bad (probably because men use them too), but I do run a men’s residence and we have a women’s bathroom downstairs. The women’s bathroom is almost self-maintaining; the attempts of some guys to clean it actually make it dirtier. The guy’s bathroom is disgusting in comparison. This will never change, regardless of who lives in the house.
The second issue is one of cost. Given a shortage of facilities, especially if the bathrooms are single-cell units without urinals or tampon dispensors, it makes perfect sense to remove gender designation - just as one would do in a house. However, UNH is a bit different:
-There are already plenty of bathrooms for both males and females
-The men’s bathrooms already have urinals, and don’t have tampon dispensors. Vice versa for the women’s bathrooms.
-It is not socially acceptable to desegregate bathrooms in most public contexts.
Changing this status quo in any way from this situation will increase overall cost, therefore it is stupid. (Not as stupid as calling them transgender bathrooms, though).
Posted by: Gandhi at March 11, 2005 05:07 PMI remember at my last job, we moved the company to a beaten down building that had been long abandoned. Due to time constraints, and costs (I assume) only one bathroom was ready when the company moved, and the President thought doing an “Ally McBeal” bathroom arrangement would work.
It didn’t. Bathroom 2 (the men’s room) opened in a few weeks. I think the first couple weeks were really unbearable for the ladies.
This is a pretty humourous situation in my opinion. A lot of chatter about potty. =)
IMO, taking care of one’s excretory needs is a plumbing issue. If you’re a pre-op transgender, then I say use whatever makes you most comfortable. Personally, I would never want to use the women’s restroom, or share a public one with them. When I used to clean restrooms as a teenager at a bus station, I learned very quickly that women can actually be messier, and yuckier, than men sometimes.
In this case, trying to acheive tolerance through physical desegregation is probably not the right solution.
Posted by: Taylor at March 11, 2005 06:13 PMThis is political correctness run amok. I am very much in favor of equality, but there needs to be limits. Since those that recognize themselves as trans-gender probably constitute the overwhelming minority, I don’t think its fair to everyone else to go and uproot the whole system. Now, instead of one group maybe feeling uncomfortable, the entire student body is. Whatever decision is made it needs to be universal. Either lable all bathrooms “unisex” and abolish urinals from the facilities campus-wide, or leave things as they were. Either way, some students and faculty are going to be less than happy.
Posted by: Steve at March 12, 2005 01:25 AM